Derrick and I always celebrated the 13th of every month as it was our dating anniversary. We chose to be married on May 26, 2006 because it was a significant date. Derrick’s soul transitioned on March 13 of this year. I will continue to carry on with the celebration of this day.

My greatest comfort during this grief journey has been recognizing the specific signs from him; knowing the love of my life is still here with me. Blue butterflies and cardinals have been the most prominent signs appearing to me (and those closest to me) in various forms. I am so sensitive and open to them that I can actually sense a shift in my body similar to chills or goosebumps when a blue butterfly is nearby. I’ve had so many beautiful encounters throughout the past seven months that are no less than miraculous. I chose to have a blue butterfly tattooed on my forearm as a constant reminder that Derrick is always with me. Our loved ones who have passed are closer than we imagine them to be and want us to keep living our best life and to be happy.